Does that girl/guy for whom you feel a little bit different is the love of your life or is he/she just a person you just like and not more than that ? Are they the one whom you're willing to go places for and face everything ? Is it love or is it just a crush which might fade away with time ?
This is something that no one can tell, except your own self but, there are some things which will surely help you in clearing certain doubts.
For instance, a crush is nothing but an instant infatuation. You see them, you like them, and you want them. You want to be with that person for that one particular reason, be it- looks, sense of humour, intelligence or anything.
Meanwhile, Love is indescribable.
Love is when you want to be with that person for no particular reason. You just want them to be by your side every day, every minute, every second.
Citing an example-
When you're in a bad mood but simply being with that person makes you forget everything, then you're in love.
If you have a crush on someone, you would want to spend time with him/her.
But if you're in love, you would anyhow find time for them no matter how busy you are or how many hurdles you have to face.
If you're just infatuated towards them, you'll just want to go and talk to them, but when you're in love, you'll experience a force making you do that automatically and all your shyness starts vanishing eventually.
When in love, you'll start feeling butterflies in your stomach each time you meet them or are about to meet them. The very thought of seeing them brings a smile on your face.
When you're just attracted to someone, you won't be able to tell clearly whether you believe in love or not.
But when love happens, it turns you into a believer.
You may have a number of crushes but love doesn't happen that easily. It takes time but once it happens, there's nothing that can compare to it. It is a feeling way beyond words, but one thing is for sure, The feeling is divine.
No matter how badly you resist it, it will happen when it has to happen and you will enjoy every bit of it. Love will hold you through ups and downs.
Love will hurt you too at times, but if it is true, it would never mean to.
Love doesn't intentionally hurt you cause it very well knows that life has been hard enough already. You cannot choose whom you will fall in love with. No, you have no control over that. Love will come by itself and once it does, you will relish it for good.
Do not fall for what you see, fall for the one who helps you to stand up after you literally fall.
Wow! This is really amazing! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you :P
DeleteOne of the best articles I've ever read.. Such an impeccable differentiation between love and crush. We already know the difference but still this beautifully written piece made it so easy to understand in such simple words that it made an enduring place in my heart..
ReplyDeleteAmazing work.. :) (y)
Thanks a tonne :D. Keep reading :P
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